Heal your nervous system. Get unstuck. Design the life you love. 

Apply now for your complimentary 30-minute coaching call with me.

This will only take a moment, promise! Read these 10 statements. How many describe you?

  • You’ve taken every curveball life’s thrown at you like a champ. You probably even did it with a smile.

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  • You do just about everything right. Oh, and you make it look easy.

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  • You can’t stand making a mistake. (It's okay for other people to make mistakes, but not you!)

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  • You’ve worked so hard to avoid the pitfalls your parents, siblings, friends and coworkers have fallen prey to.​

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  • And you pour every ounce of energy you have into your relationships, work and future.

Almost there. Just five more to go. Do these describe you too?

  • You feel the weight of the world on your shoulders.

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  • You wake up each day hoping something will be different—that some missing piece will suddenly snap into place—but it always seems to be just another repeat of the same.

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  • You’re starting to get the feeling that hitting your next goal isn’t going to fill the void you keep trying to fill.

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  • Your life, on paper (and social media), seems exciting, but you still feel unfulfilled.

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  • And, well, you’re exhausted. 110%  O-V-E-R I-T.   

So, how'd you do? If you're anything like me, you're a solid 10-for-10.

I’ve been exactly where you are. I’ve carried the responsibility of everything and everyone. I’ve gotten to the end of every to do list and felt anything but accomplished. I’ve woken up tired because, great, here’s another day just like all the ones before it.

I was 26 before I could talk about any of the things I’d spent a lifetime trying to hide. Unidentified childhood trauma meant I moved through life wearing a mask to cover up my constant fear, shame and feelings of unworthiness. And all that time, it looked like I was “succeeding” to everyone else.

I’m not a quitter though, and my guess is you aren’t either. You’re what I like to call a highly resilient, ambitious woman. So, that means we’ll keep on keepin’ on until we can keep on no more. And even though we feel like a ticking time bomb, it’s clear the only thing worse than going off would be for someone else to witness the explosion. So, we smile bigger and work harder. And the cycle continues.

But I’m not accepting that fate. And neither should you.

One day someone gave me the gift of sharing their own story and space for me to do the same. For the first time in my life, I could feel the mask slipping away. I started to heal.

You deserve that too.

If you’re any of those statements above, then I’d bet my last dollar this is also you:

You know—like really, truly, undeniably KNOW—you are meant to do great things. Impossible things. Things only YOU can do.

You don’t need to convince me. I’m absolutely positive that’s true of you. Now let’s get you there.

It's not you. It's Your Nervous System. 

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No, really, I mean it. Look, in its most basic definition, trauma is any emotionally or psychologically overwhelming event, or series of events, that temporarily leaves you without a sense of power, safety or control. And when the nervous system gets overwhelmed, it makes it really hard to grow and develop in healthy ways.

 

With a trauma-informed approach to life coaching, I’m able to walk you through a process designed to help heal your nervous system from the inside out. During coaching, I’ll walk you through how to:  

  • Identify what your nervous system does when it feels under attack (think: fight or flight or just totally checking out)

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  • Develop practical grounding techniques to get your nervous system back to its most thriving, creative, peaceful zone

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  • Uncover the root underlying emotional pain caused by trauma that created patterns and limiting beliefs you may still be relying on but are now no longer serving you

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  • Discover new, healthy approaches for better daily living that go beyond just replacing an old habit with a new one and instead work to promote whole-body healing

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  • Create boundaries that leave you feeling safe and protected

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  • Explore your obstacles and opportunities from a place of curiosity and compassion, never shame

Everyone will have their own unique experience with coaching. Here’s a taste of the work we can do together and the benefits you can experience:

 

  • Uncover a newfound sense of power over your thoughts, emotions and behaviors

 

  • Find freedom from feeling stuck or isolated

 

  • Heal attachment and emotional pain

 

  • Empower yourself with useful, practical tools and resources

 

  • Gain a new perspective on life and the people around you

 

  • Experience authentic connection

 

  • Rediscover your voice and purpose

Healing looks different for everyone. Your ten-week coaching program will be customized to meet your needs. Here’s what you can expect as part of your coaching experience:

 

  • Ten (10), 50-minute 1:1 virtual coaching sessions 

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  • Worksheets and lesson notes​

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  • Email and text message support

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  • Weekly accountability check-ins, dependent on goals

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  • Impromptu emergency calls, as needed

“Cortney is a light, a wise woman, an invaluable resource and a gift to humanity. She changed my life in changing my perspective and knowledge, and I could never repay her for that.”

-Brandi

“Great coaches don’t provide the answers, they ask the right questions. Cortney has a way of helping me pinpoint self-sabotaging behaviors and survival patterns that have kept me stuck. I love her consistency and compassion. Cortney teaches me patience as I walk through this healing journey with her. After years of trying to do this on my own, I can finally say my true self has been awakened, and I’ve found the answers for my breakthrough. Thank you, Cortney!”

-Cori

"Cortney has the perfect balance of trauma, mental health and understanding the power of God. What I love most about her coaching is that she knows how important all of these aspects are for healing and how they work together. It’s easy to find someone to give you Christ centered guidance and it’s easy to find a trauma or mental health expert, but to find someone who can perfectly intertwine them and work toward healing is exactly what I needed and exactly what Cortney provides! The world needs more of her and I am so appreciative of her help and genuine care. Thank you times a million, Cortney"

 -Becky

It took a failed engagement from a narcissistic ex for me to wake up and decide to truly pursue healing. Enter Cortney. I see my steps perfectly arranged so clearly now - everything that led me to find this amazing life coach, who understood firsthand how childhood trauma impacted all of my poor decisions - which I learned was my nervous system simply trying to keep me safe. I stopped beating myself up and instead, for the first time in my life, showed myself grace and compassion. 

 

In the beginning spending the money on healing, instead of clothes or makeup, sent my NS into a tailspin, but halfway through the program I knew it was the best money I’d ever spent (and I regretted not doing it sooner)! Cortney has been such a blessing, and I would recommend her to anyone needing to get unstuck. I’ve also gained a friend for life, which I will be forever grateful for. "

 -Amy

If you’re tired of doing it all but not having it all, let’s get you moving in a new direction. I’d be honored to walk alongside you.

 

Apply now for your complimentary 30-minute coaching call with me.

Disclaimer: Life coaching is a personalized program for each individual. I reserve the right to change the program material for each client. All results will vary based on your willingness to participate and implement what you have learned. It is not a replacement for medical advice, psychological counseling or other types of therapy. Life coaches are not able to diagnose medical conditions or prescribe medication. This program is intended to be informational in nature and should not be a substitute for medical advice of any kind. Any actions you take, or consequences that result from your actions, are entirely your own responsibility. I accept no liability from the use of information provided on my website, programs, social media, email or my services.

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